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Tuesday, July 19, 2005

Sorry Kids...

...Not too much time, nor willingness to write today.

I wrote L’s college entrance essay today…as I write superbly, I have no doubt that immediately upon seeing the eloquent words put forth before them they will not only accept her, but want to give her a full-ride scholarship… (That and the fact that the two largest donors to the school are writing her letters of recommendation… but it will be all me that actually pulls the majority of it off, I’m sure)…

The Man has a horribly busy week at work, so I may get to see him one night this week prior to him leaving on Sunday to a time zone 14 hours away… for week and a half. (~sad)

So last night I met TM for a drink… I was actually going to introduce him to L, as she was newly single as of this last weekend… of course sitting down next to her and hearing, “Okay I’ll be over in a bit. I love you.” Was not the meet-your-new-man introduction I had envisioned. So much for ‘needing to be by myself for a while’…

Love it or hate it?

So TM and I made plans to see a movie tonight… one that we have both been wanting to see. When I told Tiki this she said that I better tell The Man that I am hanging out with TM, especially two nights in a row. My response:



“I would tell The Man if I had been talking to him at all, but he is very busy, and in the one line emails we send back and forth, I feel that

“btw- been hanging out with TM, had a great time- he bought me a beer. Going to see a movie with him tonight. L thinks he’s hot and that I’m stupid for being faithful to you… haha Baby,You know I love you… see you in a few weeks when you have time”

might not be the best thing to say.

TM completely understands everything about The Man. And I will tell him when I see him.
I really do love The Man, and I wouldn’t F it up for anything at all…”



Should I be telling The Man? I absolutely would never, ever be unfaithful in the least. And TM completely knows the entire sitch… even more than some of my friends… there is a certain comfort in sharing this ‘stuff’ with someone who is completely removed from my circle…

What’s a (OC) girl to do?

3 Comments:

  • At 7/20/2005 09:42:00 AM, Blogger hannahhas said…

    Preferably not alone...

    :)

    (and The Man isn't my boyfriend)

     
  • At 7/20/2005 11:20:00 AM, Blogger EB72 said…

    Does the man know he's not your boyfriend? It's happened to me I was thinking all was cool and I was hanging out with my male friend and a "man" that I was dating (read: sleeping with) got all pissed at me. It was THEN, that I discovered HE thought he was my BOYFRIEND.

    Just checking. ;-)

    PS - your blog is one of my fav's.

     
  • At 7/20/2005 02:12:00 PM, Blogger hannahhas said…

    EB72- We discussed the fact that we wouldn't date anyone else, but we aren't "boyfriend/girlfriend", so we are both on the same page here...

    btw - thanks for the props... :)

    April- I have tried to honestly look at this from his point of view as well.


    I stood up TM last night... too tired, needed a pedi, do some house work... and felt a little bad...

     

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