Make me purr...

I’m attracted to a wide variety of guys. When I was 16 I met a boy that I was smitten with for years. Not handsome, or honestly really attractive at all, but one of the funniest people I have ever met. I was incredibly attracted to him. Make me laugh and I am yours.

I'm also (like I think most women) completely attracted to guys who have artistic talent. Write me something, paint me a picture, sing me a song… LH, my downstairs neighbor asked me once if he could borrow the acoustic guitar in my bedroom, as he knew I never played it past my two week (probably being generous with that time) stint of “playing”. I told LH, no, I liked boys who would play it for me. He scoffed.

That night my roomie and I had a party. One of the guys that had come over went into my room, grabbed my guitar and proceeded to sing me songs for the following hour. My roomie came in and enjoyed the songs briefly while I sat next to him practically drooling the entire time… Yes artistic talents a plus… LH went out the following day and purchased a guitar and lessons.


Now after our foot-fetish conversation yesterday… I was thinking about certain physical attributes that attract me to a guy. I am generally not into the “pretty-boy” type of girl. I mean… shore… Brad Pitt is fine… but give me Vince Vaughn over Mr. Pitt any day.

I have generally been attracted, typically, to dark hair and dark eyes. I suppose Tall, Dark and handsome has been something I am drawn too, but if you look at the spectrum of crushes I have had, it would not at all fit into the mold. The Man was blond haired and blue eyed… so again it is inner qualities that generally prevail over the outer ones.

There is one outer quality I truly like on men… it catches my eye at a glance. I love arm veins on guys… so masculine, and generally only prevalent in those men that have a good physique. I don’t mean horribly veiny arms, that look as though their owner has been hopping up on steroids… but a nice vein or two slightly raised on a man’s forearm… purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr…

I love running my fingers softly up them… the desire to trace them with my tongue is there as well, however I am less apt to do that on first meeting (depending of course on the alcoholic consumption prior to seeing them).

Am I the only one? Does anyone else find this hot?